As you probably have guessed, the first week at Nhowe Mission was a very exciting time. So many new foods, new sights, new sounds, and new smells. The kids immediately realized their playing potential outside and spent most of the first few days exploring in the long grass, digging in the dirt, and running up some small hills near our house where they made their "clubhouse." One afternoon, the kids were playing barefoot in the front yard when a big snake approached. Our Minnesota kids had never actually seen a snake this like in the wild before and at that point in time, we had had no formal training or instructions on what to do if you come across a snake. Well, without fear or hesitation, sweet Skogen quickly grabbed a broken broom handle that was lying in the yard and killed the snake. Without thinking twice or letting fear overcome him, he protected himself and his siblings. As the story got around Nhowe and Skogen showed the dead snake to a few of the natives, they were in awe that little Skogen, the young American, killed that snake.
This little memory of our first week at Nhowe Mission is a powerful little story! Skogen is by far the wimpiest of all four of our kids, which makes the story all the more surprising, and killing that snake is a great reminder to us of God's strength working in us. When we are only willing to trust and follow him, he directs our steps and gives us the courage and ability to do mighty things on our journey. Now that we're back in the States and have gotten settled in Utah, our kids have started a new school. As a family, we picked out a theme verse for the school year, but I think it's pretty representative of the entire past year, as well. 2 Timothy 1:7 says, "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."
God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity. Not even my little Skogen was given a spirit of fear and timidity! But we were given a spirit of POWER and LOVE and SELF-DISCIPLINE. This is a spirit that is brave and courageous. This is a spirit that boldly steps into Kindgom work as we have been equipped to do.
Like 10:1-3, 17-24:
The Master selected seventy and sent them ahead of him in pairs to every town and place where he intended to go. He gave them this charge: "What a huge harvest! And how few the harvest hands. So, on your knees; ask the God of the Harvest to send harvest hands. On you way! But be careful - this is hazardous work. You're like lambs in a wolf pack....
The seventy came back triumphant. "Master, even the demons danced to your tune!" Jesus said, "I know, I saw Satan fall, a bolt of lightning out of the sky. See what I've given you? Safe passage as you walk on snakes and scorpions, and protections from every assault of the Enemy. No one can put a hand on you. All the same, the great triumph is not in your authority over evil, but in God's authority over you and presence with you. Not what you do for God but what God does for you - that's the agenda for rejoicing."
The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. So, what are you waiting for?
In the spring of 2017, our family of six followed God's lead to Nhowe Mission and the Brian Lemons Memorial Hospital, located in Zimbabwe, Africa. During the six months that we were there, we put our whole hearts into serving in the church, hospital, school, and orphanage, while immersing ourselves in the amazing Zimbabwean culture.
We are prayerful and passionate about our work continuing at Nhowe Mission and next time we look forward to taking some of you along, too! Stay tuned for more information!
Thursday, August 23, 2018
Friday, April 27, 2018
Calling all Servants!
God doesn't call the equipped, he equips the called. All you need is the desire to be a light and God will do the rest.
Will you join us in serving in Zimbabwe short term? We're praying you will!
Please check back for more information or contact us with questions.
Friday, November 10, 2017
The Last Few Weeks
This blog post was originally written before leaving Zimbabwe, but with the immense amount of packing and the lack of internet until now, I'm just now getting it posted. Although the transition back to the US has been somewhat easy, the move has been rather tough. We've now settled into a house (although still have some unpacking to do!) and we've started our homeschool program Stateside. Thank you to all of our prayer warriors and financial supporters. We could not have done this without all of you. At times I am in awe of everything our "team" was able to accomplish and I will always be thankful for the experience.
After picking and eating Mulberries! |
After a hot sticky day at Gonarezhou National Park, we were headed back to our campsite when our brakes malfunctioned on a dirt road and we ended up flying off the road and into a group of trees. Everyone was okay and the car was drive-able after Erik fixed a flat tire, but the kids were a little upset about the whole ordeal. That night during our family devotional, we had a little time for everyone to share some thoughts about the accident. Sweet Klaasen Burke sat quietly while he listened to other comments like, “I was really scared,” and, “I hated that!” When it was his turn, he shared, “I was super scared when we started crashing into the trees, but then I thought if we died, we would all go to Heaven and be with God and that made me happy.” In the midst of great fear, Klaasen possessed such peace and such faith. If only we all as adults could truly grasp that “faith as a child.”
This experience in Gonarezhou was just one of the many crazy
experiences we had on our week long break from Nhowe. We spent the past five months immersing
ourselves in the Zimbabwean culture and serving in all ways possible, now it
was time to play tourist and see a bit more of the country! We had big plans to hit up a few of the most
recommended tourist locations and also take a quick trip across the border into
Mozambique to see the Indian Ocean.
Despite all of Erik’s planning, not everything went exactly as
expected. As I sit here reflecting back
on our time, apart from the beautiful scenery of Zimbabwe, the adventure of
travelling on Zimbabwe roads, and all the unique animals we spotted in the wild
– I could plainly see Jesus working in our lives and through us, which is
honestly what I think I will remember and reflect back on for years to come.
We set off early on a Friday morning, with plans to make
good use of the daylight. We arrived at
our cute mountain cottage in the Eastern Highlands around lunch time and our
weekend of exploring in the mountains began!
After two days of hiking, chasing waterfalls, picnics, roasting
marshmallows, and family game nights, we headed to Mutare, the home town of the
Mutare Preaching School. It was Sunday
morning when we arrived in Mutare and after some gas station cookies for
breakfast, we arrived at the Jubilee Street church of Christ, pulling in at
9:10, right on African time! We were welcomed for Bible class and worship by
such beautiful, loving people. We felt
right at home and even got invited to stay for lunch! Skogen got sick during worship and when I
took him out to the car, I witnessed a few of the ladies hurry out to make the
sadsa and kill a live chicken for lunch.
What an honor to be their guests!
After lunch we toured the preaching school and then headed
for the Zimbabwe/Mozambique border.
Border crossings in Africa are not very often a pleasant
experience. They are usually hot,
crowded, and take way longer than it seems they should. As we approached the border, we prepared
ourselves for the experience; however it never even occurred to us that we
should bring the registration and title to the car so that it wasn’t thought to
be a stolen vehicle. Of course you can
probably guess that we were not allowed to cross the border. With only three hours until border closing
for the night, and being over four hours away from Nhowe, we decided to go to
the police station to see if they could help.
Being a Sunday evening, I wasn’t too hopeful, but at this point it
seemed like a reasonable option.
To make a long story short, Erik had to drop the kids and me
off downtown Martare, where we basically sat on the side of the road and
waited. He then took one of the police
officers with him and went to pick up another police officer, who was home and
off duty for the day. The fact that this guy was willing to come into work on
his day off to help us is a great example of how giving and sacrificial
Zimbabweans are. Like most Zimbeans,
too, this police officer didn’t own a car and didn’t have transportation to the
station. With promises that this guy
could draft us an exception to get us across the border, it seemed reasonable
to drive out to his house, pick him up, and bring him into Mutare to help us.
Sitting on the side of the road and waiting for Erik got
very hot. We also got approached by,
what seemed like, every homeless person in Mutare asking for help. I felt bad that I couldn’t help everyone and
I kept hoping Erik would hurry and return back.
Little did I know, I should have been thankful for the time Erik was
away because in the car while driving with the police officers, Erik was able
to share Jesus with them. We had
received some Bibles from the church earlier that morning as a visitor gift and
since we didn’t need them, Erik had them available to give to these guys! God was obviously using our stinky situation
for His good and Erik as an instrument to share his Word.
After a memorable and difficult border crossing, we made it
to Mozambique later that evening. Our
three days there went by so quickly, but the kids really enjoyed the ocean and
despite having rats in our beach cabin, I had a good time, too. Erik spent his beach vacation withdrawing
money from the local ATMs and exchanging the Mets for American dollars. Zimbabwe uses the American dollars as their
currency; however, it is impossible to take any more than about $10 out of the
bank per day. Even if you have millions
of dollars in the bank, you are only allowed to withdraw a certain daily amount
until the bank runs out of money and then no one can take any more out. People literally camp out day after day in
front of their bank, hoping to be able to get up to the front of the ATM line
and withdraw even a few dollars. Oh, and
credit cards are not a thing in Zim, so most of the time our “swipe” would not
work anywhere. With several hospital
projects that we were planning to pay for yet before we left, Erik put in a lot
of effort in Mozambique to get these US dollars to bring back for the hospital
projects. I was in awe of his patience
and persistence with this. I was also in awe of his determination and work,
even when he could have just laid on the beach or been swimming with his kids,
he choose to keep on working. Most of
his exchanging of money was done on the black market, too, which also meant
that he was completely immersed in the Mozambique culture as he wheeled and
dealed a good exchange rate. I could
have never done what he did and if you’ve read anything about Mozambique and how
dangerous it is there, you would probably agree that you couldn’t have put
yourself out there and done that, either.
Our travels back through Mozambique were rather
interesting. First of all, Mozambique is
so desolate. There is absolutely NOTHING
for hundreds of miles. Every so often,
you’ll come across a small village of huts, but nothing more. There are no tar roads and even the main
roads aren’t marked and consist of one dirt lane. Luckily Erik had also purchased a SIM card on
the black market in Mozambique, so we were able to follow Google Maps, but with
the roads in places not being so clear that they were indeed roads, we were
confused about whether we were actually going the right way or not! We only really went the wrong way once, but
realized it within 10k and were able to turn around and find the correct
route. After getting on the right road,
we traveled for a few hours with everything seeming to go nicely. The kids, even after not getting breakfast or
lunch, weren’t complaining and we were making good time. Without gas stations anywhere around, we were
carrying three extra jerry cans of fuel on top of the car, so we weren’t so
worried about running out. Just as
everything seemed to be going well, we came around a corner on the narrow road
through the woods and another car was coming from the other way. He was going fast and apparently didn’t see
us coming. Erik swerved, but with the
deep sand, we couldn’t get out of the way as quickly, and the guy smacked into
our car. We were all okay, just a little
shook up, but our car was not. Sadly,
this car that we have spent so much time and money on to leave for the
hospital, was completely smashed on one whole side. Although drivable, it was
heartbreaking. The other guy, who was
travelling from South Africa, did not have a driver’s license or insurance and
when Erik asked him how we go about reporting the accident or what we were
supposed to do, the guy smiled, shrugged, and said, “Ahhhh, nothing! This is Mozambique!” Erik tried to at least gather his contact
information, but the guy wasn’t so sure of his own phone number. The damage to the guy's car wasn’t so bad and
he had an easy fix – he got on the hood of his car barefoot and jumped on it
until the dents in the hood flattened out.
Wow!
Carrying on with our journey, our car in pieces, we soon approached what looked like a bigger city on Google Maps and we had high hopes of topping off our gas tank (without using the tanks on top because we were saving those for camping in Gonarezhou). Portuguese is the main language of Mozambique, so Erik, being able to speak Spanish, could get by for the most part. As we approached this bigger city, we soon realized that it only consisted of a couple small buildings, none of them resembling a gas station of any sort. After stopping and asking some guys on the road, they eventually directed us to someone who had some fuel for sale. It wasn’t exactly what we were envisioning, but the guys were nice and it’s always a pleasure to support locals trying to make money and support their families. After fueling up and a quick snack of some bananas we bought on the side of the road, we were just getting reading to leave when two guys asked for a ride to a city about two hours down the road. Even though we don’t ever pick up hitchhikers, these guys took time to help us find gas and we decided it’d be okay to transport them. Piling the boys in the back seat, Maida shared her middle seat with these strangers. They spoke little English, but Erik was able to communicate with them using his Spanish and for most of the car ride, he preached almost an entire sermon to them! He asked them if they knew God and if they went to church. He told them about Heaven and hell. They asked him for a Bible and unfortunately, we had none to give them, but before dropping them off, we got their contact info and we’re hoping to follow up with them.
With such a bad border experience going into Mozambique, I
was hesitant to go back across. Luckily,
we got there at a good time and the place was so quiet. The Mozambique border was all business, no
smiles, but quick. The Zimbabwean border
was also quick, but such a great welcome “home.” Zimbabweans are precious people, always so
happy, and so happy to have us here.
After seeing the Nhowe Mission church of Christ logo on our car at the
border, three different people, at three different times, asked Erik about the
church. Erik was able to share Jesus
with all three of them and they, too, asked for Bibles. At that point, Erik and I decided that the
next time we travel anywhere, but especially in areas where it’s hard to afford
food let alone a Bible, we’ll make sure we bring some Bibles to give away.
Our journey finished off with four days of camping in
Gonarezhou. I can’t even begin to tell
you what an amazing experience we had there.
Besides the second car accident, everything else went perfectly. Seeing animals on a safari is great, but
seeing animals out in the wild is even better!
On the first day in Gonaerzhou, we met a husband and wife on one of the
cliffs. After talking with them for a
while, we found out that they get Bibles sent to them from the US to hand out
to people here in Zim and that they had a couple spare in their car. They gave us a few, which we didn’t know
would come in so handy, but three more times on our travels, people stopped us
and talked to us about Jesus after reading our car logo. It was such a great pleasure to give these
people Bibles and we hope they go and share the good news with many more.
We are now all packed up and it’s almost time to board the airplane. It’s so bitter-sweet to think about leaving this country. Nhowe has truly become our home and we wish we could have some more time here. We have big hopes and dreams of returning at least every year and we’re praying that God places the desire on many of your hearts to join us. There is so much to be done for God’s Kingdom here, while also serving in many of the missions aspects. After we return home, we’re looking forward to a blogpost, highlighting many of the projects we took on at Nhowe. We appreciate all of you for sharing this journey with us and we especially appreciate all the financial support we received to go complete the great commission. God is good.
Thursday, September 21, 2017
Forgiveness
At Nhowe, it’s not uncommon for kids to linger around outside our house. As I’ve mentioned before, there are hardly any personal boundaries here and many times the kids will come right up to the house and stare in the windows. Last week when I went into my bedroom after a shower to get dressed, there was a little boy peering in and because it’s so common, I wasn’t very surprised or shocked. I recognized the boy and hurried to get dressed because I needed to talk to him.
A couple months earlier, this same little boy was brought to Erik on the sideline of a soccer game. He had a bad rash on his leg and needed a doctor. As Erik did a quick inspection of his leg on the sidelines, he noticed an oozing, infected rash that extended from his knee down. The rash was crusted over in places and was so bad that his shoe was actually stuck on his foot! His leg was swollen and he walked with a limp. My heart hurt for this sweet boy. Since it was Sunday, Erik asked him to go to the clinic the next day with a parent. The next day I happened to be at the hospital working on a project by the entrance when this boy and his mom walked in. I quickly called Erik and approached them. A nurse came out to translate for us because his mom did not speak any English and we learned that he had been suffering with this rash for a long time. His mom claimed they didn’t have any money and could not afford a clinic visit, which was $4.00, or medicine to treat it. I begged Erik to do what he could to help. Erik was able to get the boy into the clinic and get him the medicine he needed. I was so happy about it and I have often prayed for this boy’s healing. When I saw him outside my window, I was very interested to see how his leg was healing up.
I quickly slipped on a skirt, but before I could get outside, Skogen was in my room in tears. He explained that he was working at his desk in his room, which was in front of an open window. His watch had been sitting on his desk and accidentally fell out of the window! When he went outside to get his watch, the little boy, who had been peering in the windows, was twirling it around and around in his hands. Skogen asked for his watch back and the little boy put it in his pocket and shook his head ‘no.’ When I stepped outside, the little boy was standing at the edge of the long grass, about 50 feet from our house. I yelled to him, asking him to give us the watch back. As I walked toward him, though, he took off running through the tall grass toward Arizona, the little village nearby where he lives. We have been advised on many occasions not to go into Arizona, due to the other things, so I decided to let him go.
Skogen was very unhappy about this situation. He had never had anything stolen from him like this before and was saddened that one of the local kids, who was a potential friend, would do something like this. We reviewed our “family rules” that are hanging on our wall in the living room and prayed about the situation. I assured Skogen that we’d get him a new watch when we got back to the States and that it didn’t cost much at Walmart to get the exact same one. The next day, I could see this was weighing on everyone. The kids talked about it at the breakfast table, it was the topic of conversation among friends in the yard, and Klaasen prayed about it at dinner that evening. Previously, we had all associated stealing with bad guys and I knew the kids were having a hard time processing a friend stealing. I understood their feelings, but also had my own frustrations. This was the same little boy that we had taken pity on and bent over backwards to get him the medical care he needed to get well and now he was stealing from us. It just didn’t sit right with me.
On Sunday we arrived at church and sat down in the wooden pew with a strategic seating arrangement to minimize distractions or interpersonal drama. First T, then Erik, Klaasen, me, Madia, and lastly Skogen. On the other side of Skogen there was a lady with her little girl who came in just behind us. I glanced at her face to see if I recognized her and then something caught my eye – she had Skogen’s watch on!!!
I couldn’t believe it! Skogen saw it before I did and was already in tears. I felt uneasy as I leaned over to tell Erik. Erik had Skogen double-triple make sure that it was his watch and then assured us we’d get it back somehow. I sat there in disbelief. How could this be? I glanced at the lady’s face a few more times and recognized her as the mother to the boy with the bad rash. I also recognized her, though, as the lady who had gone forward after church last Wednesday to be baptized.
Erik slipped a dollar bill in his shirt pocket during services and told me about his plan to confront her on the way out of church and offer to buy the watch back. My thoughts were all over the place. By asking for the watch back and maybe creating some awkwardness, I didn’t want to drive her away from church. I also wanted to make sure we were being good Christian examples for our kids, who were very emotionally involved in this situation. This whole ordeal was such a big deal that I knew it was something the kids would remember forever. I was angry and confused, but I was also sensitive to the fact that this woman doesn’t have as much as we do. We could afford another watch. She couldn’t. What was the right thing to do? My mind was spinning as I contemplated the options.
Toward the end of the service, Erik stood up and I saw him grab a member of the church, someone Erik and I really respect as a Godly, Christian man. They went into the preacher’s office together and I could only guess that Erik must have asked him what he should do. Erik came back and sat down and then one of the elders came and got the lady from the pew and asked her into the office. I felt nervous about what was taking place, but thankful that we didn’t have to be involved. Later we found out that the elders called her into the office, told her what had happened, and asked for the watch back. She gladly gave it to them and it was then returned to us after services.
As we walked home from church, I really thought this was the end of the stolen watch ordeal. I thought we had learned some good lessons and I was thankful that the elders helped us get it back. I was so proud of Skogen for holding it together during church when he had to sit for two gruesome hours, looking at his watch on someone else’s wrist. My proudest moment came on Tuesday, though.
Skogen, Klaasen, and Torsten were playing in the backyard in the sand and the little boy who stole the watch approached them. Maida saw him through the window and quickly warned me that he was there. Initially, when the watch was first taken, I had thought that if that little boy ever came over again, I would tell him that he was not allowed to play here because he stole something from us. Honestly, I thought he’d be too ashamed to ever show his face here again, though. A little surprised, I approached the boy and told him that we had gotten Skogen’s watch back. I also told him that we weren’t happy that he had stolen it from us and that he should tell Skogen that he was sorry. I was unsure if this boy even understood English, but he immediately turned and looked at Skogen and said, “I’m sorry.” When I first approached him, I had planned on asking him to go home, but now I saw that Skogen and Klaasen had already given him a tool to dig with them in the sand. So, with several little eyes on me, I looked at this little boy and simply just said that if he wanted to play here, he couldn’t steal our things. I asked him if he understood and he nodded he did. I said it again, “If you steal from us, I will ask you to go home the next time you come.” He nodded yes and then Klaasen invited him, “Hey, come dig with us!”
I was humbled and almost embarrassed at how my heart initially felt when I was so sure about asking him to leave. I was also so proud and honored to be the mom of such great boys, who had shown me what forgiveness looked like. Ironically about 30 minutes later, I went back outside, this time on the other side of the house to hang some laundry. Surprisingly, the little boy was in our garbage pit. I hesitated for a minute, knowing what he was doing – taking things out of the pit. It was garbage, though, and I shouldn’t care if someone took our garbage, right? On the other hand, though, I told him that he couldn’t steal from us and this was stealing. Before I could say anything, he got out of the pit, slowly walked up to me, held up his hand, and sheepishly gave me something that he had taken out of the pit. I thanked him for not taking it and in that moment I realized that this whole ordeal wasn’t just a learning experience for our kids, it wasn’t just a learning experience for me, but it was a learning experience for this boy, too.
A couple months earlier, this same little boy was brought to Erik on the sideline of a soccer game. He had a bad rash on his leg and needed a doctor. As Erik did a quick inspection of his leg on the sidelines, he noticed an oozing, infected rash that extended from his knee down. The rash was crusted over in places and was so bad that his shoe was actually stuck on his foot! His leg was swollen and he walked with a limp. My heart hurt for this sweet boy. Since it was Sunday, Erik asked him to go to the clinic the next day with a parent. The next day I happened to be at the hospital working on a project by the entrance when this boy and his mom walked in. I quickly called Erik and approached them. A nurse came out to translate for us because his mom did not speak any English and we learned that he had been suffering with this rash for a long time. His mom claimed they didn’t have any money and could not afford a clinic visit, which was $4.00, or medicine to treat it. I begged Erik to do what he could to help. Erik was able to get the boy into the clinic and get him the medicine he needed. I was so happy about it and I have often prayed for this boy’s healing. When I saw him outside my window, I was very interested to see how his leg was healing up.
I quickly slipped on a skirt, but before I could get outside, Skogen was in my room in tears. He explained that he was working at his desk in his room, which was in front of an open window. His watch had been sitting on his desk and accidentally fell out of the window! When he went outside to get his watch, the little boy, who had been peering in the windows, was twirling it around and around in his hands. Skogen asked for his watch back and the little boy put it in his pocket and shook his head ‘no.’ When I stepped outside, the little boy was standing at the edge of the long grass, about 50 feet from our house. I yelled to him, asking him to give us the watch back. As I walked toward him, though, he took off running through the tall grass toward Arizona, the little village nearby where he lives. We have been advised on many occasions not to go into Arizona, due to the other things, so I decided to let him go.
Skogen was very unhappy about this situation. He had never had anything stolen from him like this before and was saddened that one of the local kids, who was a potential friend, would do something like this. We reviewed our “family rules” that are hanging on our wall in the living room and prayed about the situation. I assured Skogen that we’d get him a new watch when we got back to the States and that it didn’t cost much at Walmart to get the exact same one. The next day, I could see this was weighing on everyone. The kids talked about it at the breakfast table, it was the topic of conversation among friends in the yard, and Klaasen prayed about it at dinner that evening. Previously, we had all associated stealing with bad guys and I knew the kids were having a hard time processing a friend stealing. I understood their feelings, but also had my own frustrations. This was the same little boy that we had taken pity on and bent over backwards to get him the medical care he needed to get well and now he was stealing from us. It just didn’t sit right with me.
On Sunday we arrived at church and sat down in the wooden pew with a strategic seating arrangement to minimize distractions or interpersonal drama. First T, then Erik, Klaasen, me, Madia, and lastly Skogen. On the other side of Skogen there was a lady with her little girl who came in just behind us. I glanced at her face to see if I recognized her and then something caught my eye – she had Skogen’s watch on!!!
I couldn’t believe it! Skogen saw it before I did and was already in tears. I felt uneasy as I leaned over to tell Erik. Erik had Skogen double-triple make sure that it was his watch and then assured us we’d get it back somehow. I sat there in disbelief. How could this be? I glanced at the lady’s face a few more times and recognized her as the mother to the boy with the bad rash. I also recognized her, though, as the lady who had gone forward after church last Wednesday to be baptized.
Erik slipped a dollar bill in his shirt pocket during services and told me about his plan to confront her on the way out of church and offer to buy the watch back. My thoughts were all over the place. By asking for the watch back and maybe creating some awkwardness, I didn’t want to drive her away from church. I also wanted to make sure we were being good Christian examples for our kids, who were very emotionally involved in this situation. This whole ordeal was such a big deal that I knew it was something the kids would remember forever. I was angry and confused, but I was also sensitive to the fact that this woman doesn’t have as much as we do. We could afford another watch. She couldn’t. What was the right thing to do? My mind was spinning as I contemplated the options.
Toward the end of the service, Erik stood up and I saw him grab a member of the church, someone Erik and I really respect as a Godly, Christian man. They went into the preacher’s office together and I could only guess that Erik must have asked him what he should do. Erik came back and sat down and then one of the elders came and got the lady from the pew and asked her into the office. I felt nervous about what was taking place, but thankful that we didn’t have to be involved. Later we found out that the elders called her into the office, told her what had happened, and asked for the watch back. She gladly gave it to them and it was then returned to us after services.
As we walked home from church, I really thought this was the end of the stolen watch ordeal. I thought we had learned some good lessons and I was thankful that the elders helped us get it back. I was so proud of Skogen for holding it together during church when he had to sit for two gruesome hours, looking at his watch on someone else’s wrist. My proudest moment came on Tuesday, though.
Skogen, Klaasen, and Torsten were playing in the backyard in the sand and the little boy who stole the watch approached them. Maida saw him through the window and quickly warned me that he was there. Initially, when the watch was first taken, I had thought that if that little boy ever came over again, I would tell him that he was not allowed to play here because he stole something from us. Honestly, I thought he’d be too ashamed to ever show his face here again, though. A little surprised, I approached the boy and told him that we had gotten Skogen’s watch back. I also told him that we weren’t happy that he had stolen it from us and that he should tell Skogen that he was sorry. I was unsure if this boy even understood English, but he immediately turned and looked at Skogen and said, “I’m sorry.” When I first approached him, I had planned on asking him to go home, but now I saw that Skogen and Klaasen had already given him a tool to dig with them in the sand. So, with several little eyes on me, I looked at this little boy and simply just said that if he wanted to play here, he couldn’t steal our things. I asked him if he understood and he nodded he did. I said it again, “If you steal from us, I will ask you to go home the next time you come.” He nodded yes and then Klaasen invited him, “Hey, come dig with us!”
I was humbled and almost embarrassed at how my heart initially felt when I was so sure about asking him to leave. I was also so proud and honored to be the mom of such great boys, who had shown me what forgiveness looked like. Ironically about 30 minutes later, I went back outside, this time on the other side of the house to hang some laundry. Surprisingly, the little boy was in our garbage pit. I hesitated for a minute, knowing what he was doing – taking things out of the pit. It was garbage, though, and I shouldn’t care if someone took our garbage, right? On the other hand, though, I told him that he couldn’t steal from us and this was stealing. Before I could say anything, he got out of the pit, slowly walked up to me, held up his hand, and sheepishly gave me something that he had taken out of the pit. I thanked him for not taking it and in that moment I realized that this whole ordeal wasn’t just a learning experience for our kids, it wasn’t just a learning experience for me, but it was a learning experience for this boy, too.
Friday, September 15, 2017
Zimbabwe, Our Home-Away-From-Home
washing laundry at our spout beside out house at Nhowe |
As the bright orange sun rises through our windows every morning, waking our family for breakfast, another day begins and with each new day here, so many life-changing opportunities welcome us. I came here planning to give, but what I have received from our time here has definitely been more abundant. Zimbabwe is a place that will always be special to me and once I get back to the United States, I know I will always long for this place – I am sure we all will. Zimbabwe has been permanently placed in our hearts and is truly our home-away-from-home. Let me tell you a little about this wonderful country.
ladies doing their laundry on a bridge in the river |
English is the official language of Zimbabwe, but the native languages are more common outside Harare. Shona is the language around the Nhowe area and throughout most of the country. Erik has been able to learn a little more Shona than the kids and I, but we all hope to learn more. We’ve been here so long that most of the Zimbabweans expect us to have picked up more Shona and often speak to me in Shona when greeting me at church. I have come to conclude that I am not as good at picking up a foreign language as I thought I was going to be. Most people here, especially the school-aged kids, have two names, a Shona name and an English name. I haven’t learned most of the adults’ first names because first names aren’t really used here. Everyone is “Brother [last name]” or “Sister [last name].” People usually just call me “Sista,” or “Sista Erik.” The school kids and others who work around the mission often call me “Mama” and Erik is often called, “Boss.”
a woman carrying water on her head and also has a baby tied on her back |
Orphans are very common in Zim. AIDS has taken many of the parents and as we’ve witnessed, even young children are totally capable of raising themselves. Family members or neighbors often help take care of these orphans, but oftentimes they fend for themselves, many of them sick with HIV themselves, unable to afford or get to any sort of medical care. It’s an encouragement to me when I see Zimbabweans stepping up and trying to help these orphans, even if they have nothing themselves.
helping take corn off the cob with a rock, preparing it to go to the grinding mill |
a grinding mill |
a typical Zimbabwean homestead |
Zimbabwe's economy uses the US dollar for currency, which has been helpful for us that we don’t have to exchange any money and don't have to contemplate mental conversions before buying something, but the problem with this is that there isn’t enough cash available in the country. This hasn’t just been a problem for us, it’s a problem for everyone here. (I think Erik has noted this in previous posts.) There isn’t a day that goes by that there aren’t long lines outside of the banks, waiting for just an attempt at getting some hard cash. IF the bank has money to give out, people are only allowed to withdraw $10-50 per day. Zim also does not have any credit cards. They have debit cards, which are called “swipe.” Most of the time, we can use our international credit card (which saves on using hard cash!), but often times “swiping” is not even an option. And even when it is an option, the swipe machines don't recognize our credit cards since they are only set up for debit cards. We always hold our breath and cross our fingers when we try to pay with our cards!
Our family with our security guards. These guys are the whole reason that I've been able to sleep peacefully through the night. I am SO thankful for them! |
stopped at one of our favoite markets, everyone runs to the car and holds their goods up to the car windows, trying to make a sale |
There is an extremely high rate of unemployment in Zimbabwe (click on the links above) and the people who do have meaningful employment make hardly anything compared to people in the States. For example, our night guards who stay up all night patrolling our property make only $2.00/NIGHT (edited by Erik - Kara must not have been able to comprehend this when she was writing it, or it could have been a simple typo, because she had originally typed $2.00/hour). They support an entire family on this income, which would be unheard of in the States! But I can't argue with them that it is better than zero. On top of this, across all industries, employees go for months between paychecks. If you worked for 4 months without getting paid, would you still show up the next day? Unfortunately, the Zimbabweans who are lucky enough to have a job are essentially left without a choice. So in light of making $2/day, try to understand how most things in the grocery store are similar prices to our grocery stores in Minnesota, with many things even being more expensive! Bread is a lot cheaper at $0.90 per loaf, but shampoo is extremely expensive at about $13.00 per bottle! As far as what you can buy at the store, you can find almost everything and anything here in the store as you can in the States, it just might take an entire day of canvassing 5 different stores. :) The only thing that we have noticed as being completely unavailable is Mexican food (taco shells, taco seasoning, tortilla chips, salsa…). They have great avocados everywhere for $0.30 each, but no one has ever heard of guacamole. Aside from the typical grocery store, and also the bulk-style stores (similar to Sam's Club), they also have markets. Markets are usually open-air and consist of old sheets or fertilizer bags strung between sticks to partition off each shop. Oftentimes they have a thatched roof or sometimes just a ripped tarp draped over the top. You can buy anything at the market from flip flops or a new suit, to nail polish, shower gel, cabbage, or a bag of oranges. I have to be in the right mood to shop at the markets because as a white American, you have to be ready for every shop owner harassing you with their goods. Most people are respectful and after a polite “no, thank you,” they will leave you alone, but I just feel bad that I can’t buy from everyone. Erik, on the other hand, looooooves the markets. He loves to talk to anyone and everyone who approaches him and will always try to negotiate lower prices for whatever he can. We have a small shack called the “Tack shop” at the hospital that sells a variety of things. Bread, sweets, pop, juice syrup, laundry soap, shower soap, tin foil, toilet paper, and a few other items are available, which is convenient since we're 30 minutes from the next town on rough roads and an hour to Marondera if you need a grocery store (though you still need to go to Harare - 2 hours - for most things). We love to go get a pop to share and sit on the small veranda in front of the shack. People come and go all day, sitting and drinking their pops because you have to return the glass bottle before you leave. The glass bottles are then picked up and reused. Just adjacent to the veranda you will almost always find a heated game of checkers going on. They made a checkers board out of plastic scrap and a black permanent marker. The checkers pieces are old bottle tops grouped into two colors.
Many people here still cook over fires. Even if you have electricity in Zim, the electric company can shut off the electricity at any time for any reason. It’s not uncommon for the electricity to go off at least once a day and be off for several hours. Sometimes the electricity will go off for days at a time, which will also affect the water due to the electric pumps. What amazes me is how these people, who have absolutely no electricity or running water in the house (which means no kitchen sink, no shower, no toilet), come to work every day looking like a million bucks! On the days when I don’t get a shower and the mornings when I’m freezing cold because it got down to 30 degrees F the night before and there was no heat, I don’t feel like getting up and dressing up in high heels, nylons, lipstick, and everything. Zimbabweans are extremely tough and extremely happy. I have never heard one person complain about one thing for the past five months we’ve been here. The epitome of resiliency.
There are plenty of gas stations here, however, it’s hard to find one that actually has gas! Gas here is referred to as “petrol” and is very, very, very expensive – over $5.30/gallon! I don’t know how anyone affords to drive anywhere on a typical income. Maybe that’s why we see so many vans, called “buses,” and they are always packed full to the brim of people. People on top of people, even in the back trunk of the van, you often see people plastered against the window. A few days ago, we even saw people piled on the roof of the van! Another common site is a “lorry,” or open bed semi-truck, filled with people. They appropriately call vehicles that transport people, “people movers.”
One of Zimbabwe's nicer tarred roads (note the one middle lane) and a rock formation that is similar to the beautiful formations found allover this country! |
This elephant crossed the road right in front of us! |
While visiting friends on a farm, we had zebras come almost all the way up onto their deck! |
soccer at the mission - social games and a prayer session after are held every Tuesday and Thursday evening |
Zimbabwe has all the regular places as most cities – post offices, parks, hospitals, clinics, malls, pharmacies, libraries, schools, universities, etc. The standards are a lot different here, though, so at first all I could see were the imperfections. The longer we’ve been here, the more normal it all seems. There is no Walmart or Target, which has been hard because we’re so used to going to one store to get anything and everything we need. Here, you have to run all over the place to 50 different places just to get a few things that you’re looking for. They have an “OK Mart,” which is similar to K Mart in the States, but not quite as good.
the boys learning knife safety at cub scouts |
setting up for movie night at the hospital |
our first movie night - with over 50 people there |
Coming to Zimbabwe has been one of the very best decisions Erik and I have ever made and something I will never ever regret doing. Six months just doesn’t seem long enough, though. I’m already dreading the goodbyes to the Zimbabweans who have become like family. I’m looking at our to-do list and wishing we’d have just a few more months to accomplish a little more here. The great relationships and the projects left to complete inspire me to come back again soon, though – and bring others along, too!
Before posting, I asked Maida to write down a few things that came to her mind about things that may be different between the States and Zim. I was surprised to see that she came up with several things that I forgot to mention! Here is her list:
U.S.A. / Zim
1. Sudza for every meal.
2. Tea everyday at 10:00 [The whole world stops for tea time! School gets let out and kids go home, workers all over the country pause what they are doing, and everyone has tea and bread.]
3. Lunch isn't until 2:00 or 3:00pm. Dinner isn't until 8:00 or 9:00pm.
4. Cows wander around and often eat our laundry hanging on the line!
5. Lots of dogs run around stray.[As a whole, Zimbabweans do not like dogs. They are terrified of our Simba on the mission.]
6. Instead of using guns for hunting, lots of times they use a pack of dogs.
7. "dust" roads instead of dirt roads
8. electricity and water goes out at random
9. Their school year is completely different than ours. They start their new school year in January and instead of having a long summer break like we do, they get a month off in August and a month off in December.
Simba, almost 60 pounds at only 4 months old! |
11. They cram lots of people into mini vans.
12. They have game parks, not zoos.
13. There are a lot of Shona words ending in "akanaka." [Also, all Shona words end in a vowel.]
14. In some places monkeys run around wild.
15. hospitals have outdoor halls
Tuesday, September 5, 2017
No Need to Fear
One of the things I enjoy about being here in Zimbabwe is
the quality time I get to spend with the kids. It seems like almost every day, we are able
to sit and genuinely talk together. I
love hearing what’s in their hearts. Another thing I enjoy about being here with the kids is serving along side them. It's been a gift to watch them blossom through serving and teaching others.
Last week, Maida came to me, wanting to talk. She had just come in from talking with one of
her good friends here at Nhowe and she wanted to share with me the
conversation. I was extremely touched by
what she shared. There is a lot I can learn from my kids and being able to share my faith openly and freely, without hesitation, is one of those things. I asked Maida to share her conversation from that day here on the blog...
Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but
set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and
in purity. - 1 Timothy 4:12
I was sitting with Bea on her veranda and then suddenly she
said, “I’m afraid of everything. Think
of something… like this floor of the veranda, for example. If someone slipped on this, they could
actually die on it!” Then she pointed
and said, “Look at this brick pillar right here. If someone ran into it, they
could get really bad hurt. People could
actually die on this, too.”
I noticed how upset she was getting while she talked. I asked if she was afraid of water and she
said, “YES, don’t even say water! I’m
scared to death of water. People
actually drown in water!”
Then I asked if she was afraid of fire and she said, “Yeah,
why wouldn’t I be? You can get burned on
fire.” Then she held up a spoon that she
was holding, “Look at this spoon! If I
gave this spoon to a one year old, she could think it was a toy or something,
put it in her mouth, and choke and die!”
I asked if there was anything she wasn’t afraid of. She said, “I’m afraid of every single little
thing in this world. Even pretty things,
like flowers - they can be poisonous. In
the grass, there can be snakes hiding.”
She paused for a minute and then said, “Someone once told me that there
isn’t anything you can’t be afraid of and I believe it.”
I thought back to a conversation I had had with a friend
back home and I shared with Bea, “One of my friends once told me that the only
thing to fear is fear itself.”
She was deep in thought as she was playing with a rubix
cube. After a while she asked, “Are you
afraid of this rubix cube? Like, what if
someone came and took a square off, left it, and then a tiny kid came along and
chocked on it and died?”
I shook my head and asked her if she knew the story of
Joseph and the coat of many colors from the Bible. I told her about how God can take bad things
and turn them good. Like how Joseph got thrown in a pit by his brothers and
sold, but eventually he turned into a leader in Egypt. She didn’t know the
story, but I could tell that she was intently listening when I told it to
her. I explained to her that God is with
us and we can ask for help through prayer, anytime we need to. I encouraged her
to think about Heaven because everything in this world is temporary. I told her that we won’t be here forever and
we don’t need to fear when we have Jesus. I hope I encouraged her, taught her more about Jesus, and showed her that we don't need to fear because God is always here.
Thursday, August 31, 2017
Giving It All To God
Klaasen thought our sunny side up eggs looked like a good mask! |
It’s been awhile since I [Erik] wrote an update on the blog, but
it’s not for lack of material. The past
4 months have gone so fast and we’ve been keeping very busy with so many
projects at the hospital and have also found some time to take weekend trips
here and there to explore Zimbabwe.
with Brother Timothy, Dr. Mabika and Dr. Mashaire |
Maputi = popcorn |
Two other analogies I see in the giving hearts I have
witnessed in Zimbabwe are the Hebrew sacrifices from the Old Testament and,
with an interesting justaposition, the barter system in prison. The Old Testament describes exactly how the
priests were to sacrifice offerings to God.
They were to bring the fattened calf and their best goat. This comes to mind when I see the Nhowe church
offering board.
17 Maputi were given, 34 sweets, 7 ballpoint pens… This isn’t going to help with church
outreach a whole lot or pay the preacher’s salary (which they don’t have now
due to financial constrictions), but it is all they have. They are giving their best to God. Obviously, the woman who gave 2 mites is a
pertinent story in this setting, as well.
I can see the puzzled looks on your faces – “So what does
bartering for cigarettes in prison have to do with giving candy in the church
collection plate?!?” Well, something
else that I commented on in the first blog post, and something that has now
become our new normal, is that there is simply no cash in this country. There is no hard currency. Zimbabwe uses the US dollar, but there are
not enough dollars to run an economy, so people and businesses alike operate on
bank transfers, Ecocash (which is akin to Paypal but only via phones and also
charges 2% on every transaction), and, wait for it…., bartering. Bartering happens in prison because people
don’t have cash, so the movies show us (I don’t know personally!) that in order
to slip Ex-Lax in your enemy’s coffee, you slip a magazine to the cook. You can make up a number of your own
scenarios, I’m sure.
Aside from not having
money, like physical money, many – if not most – of the people in the rural
areas don’t have any money. There is no
ongoing income. They live off the earth. They have a garden, perhaps a donkey, and
they gather wood for cooking and heating with a fire. And that brings me back to why I’m so amazed
at the generosity. They know that they
aren’t going to bring any of these earthly possessions to Heaven and it humbles
me to think that I’m hesitant to loan out my bicycle or skis to a friend
(granted the bike is worth more than I have ever paid for a used car).
Sunday worship at the Nhowe Church of Christ |
Think about what we have and how generous we are with our
possessions. Some things are sentimental
and it’s OK to withhold your great-grandfathers 12-gauge when your neighbor
wants to go shooting, especially if you’re not necessarily close friends, but
why not loan that same non-friend neighbor your snow blower, lawnmower, or
electric drill? Yes, these things are
expensive, but your reward will be evident in days to come. I have to read my own words here, because
time is so precious to us all, as well, but consider offering your time or
expertise to friends and neighbors.
Spending a few hours helping someone rake leaves or work in a garden not
only helps that person, but builds relationships and allows us to share our
faith at the same time! I need a lot of
practice with that one!
Skogen with a beautiful Zimbabwean sunset |
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